My best friend of 16 years is my bridesmaid. Lisa Slater.
Was kind enough to look like a bride (again) as was the custom in the Victorian age.
"Victorian wedding etiquette on bridesmaids clothing is also peculiar.
Bridesmaids should wear dresses that look like that of the bride. It was
believed before (even before the time of the Victorians) that a devil
is on the loose everytime there is a wedding. This devil is tasked to
kidnap the bride, take her away from her groom, and take her virginity
from her. So, bridesmaids are selected, those that look like the bride,
younger or of her age, and must dress the way she dresses so as to
confuse the devil who should be taken."
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